If Only My Parents Knew....

For the most part growing up, I was a good kid. I never got suspended from school, I never got into fights, and I never got arrested. My little brother sure took the cake on all of that, as my mom says he made up for both of us. I love that he's no longer a punk kid and has grown into an amazing person who is fighting for our country as one of the few.. the proud. Of course I was no angel.... I got in trouble a lot for talking back to my parents, for talking too much in school, and of course staying out too late/missing curfew.

Joining Erin and Rebecca to talk about the things that my parents may or may not know about me while I was trying to "find myself".


~ that my friend and I (we called ourselves the Queen Bees.... we kept it klassy) got in trouble for talking back to our chorus teacher in 8th grade and I was really at a principal's detention one day and not cheerleader try outs. I eventually made it to try outs, but was a little late :-P

~ yes that was a hickey mom, but there was no way I was going to admit it then. I'm sure she knows this, but let me think I got away with it.

~ that as soon as I turned 21, my cousin had me make a copy of my ID so she could get into clubs/bars. She then lost it twice and BEGGED me to get it copied again...and again. Her 21st birthday was a long 2 years and 3 months after mine.

~ that the bag I always came down the stairs with before going out in high school to go to the all ages club (gosh I can't believe I'm typing this) was packed with my skankalicious outfit and not the tank top and jeans you thought I wore.

~ yes those were parties we went to after the Friday night football games and yes there was alcohol there and no there wasn't any parental supervision of the sort. But back then I hated the taste of beer and never really drank until college. I made up for all the drinking I didn't do in high school in college... trust me! 0:-)

~ the "Freshman 15" I gained in college wasn't because of the bad dorm food, it was that I was no longer playing team sports and I was now drinking my face off. Yeah, I still remember the day someone told me that beer and mixed drinks had a ton of calories in them *mind blown*. I was not happy....

~ every time I was "grounded" and couldn't talk on the phone that was the 1st thing I would do as soon as you pulled out of the driveway.

~ lil' bro and I would scramble as soon as we heard/saw your car(s) pull up the driveway because he was probably watching something on tv he shouldn't and I was probably talking on the phone instead of my working on chores or homework.

~ that ledge off my bedroom was a great jumping off point for my high school boyfriend whenever you came home earlier than you were supposed to.

I promise I was a good kid with a good heart! :)

Birthday Cruisin to the Bahamas

How do you recap an amazing trip in just a few dozen photos?


10 of us booked a cruise to the Bahamas to celebrate our friend's 30th birthday and it was the most fun trip I've ever taken. I highly recommend booking trips with friends, it brings you closer together and creates priceless memories and inside jokes that'll last a lifetime ;-)

We've done a lot of weekend getaways this year with friends, and we've all agreed we should make it an annual thing. So many great memories made in Miami, Labor Day in St. Pete, and now the Bahamas cruise.

Yep that pretty much sums up the weekend...


Pink champs when we got to the cruise port for the b-day girl


Day 1


~ 1st drink of the cruise

~ H and I with the Miami sky line in the background before setting sail

~ Group pics on the back of the ship

~ It was cruddy weather before we set sail, but at least it wasn't raining for the sail away party

~ Hot tub fun during the sail away party

~ Gold sparkles

~ Unlimited beverage package for the win

~ Boys being boys

~ Birthday girl utilizing her new to-go cup


Day 2


Day 2, we docked in Nassau and went over to Paradise Island to go to the beach. We had an awesome cab driver who got a kick out of our group's shenanigans. If you're ever in Nassau and have a cab driver with a beard named Phil tell him I said what's up!

We then made our way back into town and went to Senor Frogs for some yard drinks which is a necessity whenever there is a Senor Frogs near by. Afterwards, I did a little souvenir shopping in the straw market before making my way back to the ship to get ready for the birthday dinner.


Many great toasts and speeches were made to the birthday girl and of course there was cake. Afterwards, we headed up to the White Hot Party on the top deck under the stars. SO.MUCH.FUN



Day 3



Day 3, we went to Norwegian's private island Great Stirrup Cay. It was beautiful there, and I loved that it was owned by the cruise line so the bbq lunch was free and so were all of our drinks since we all had the unlimited drink package. 


On the last night, H wore his Chiefs jersey to watch them take on the Broncos. Sadly they got their 1st loss of the season, but it was pretty cool to be sitting in a sports bar and watching the game at sea. We felt like we were racking up a huge tab with all the apps and drinks that kept hitting the table, but that's the beauty of a cruise. There was no bill!

So sad that it's all over, but I am utterly exhausted and my liver is thanking me for the break. 

Cruising Essentials

Hope everyone is having a fabulous weekend!

Steph and I share a big love for cruising, and I hope you enjoy reading about her cruise essentials. I agree with everything below and you can't go wrong with cruising... all your meals are included, you get to dress up and go to dinner and a show every night, and you're either relaxing at sea or waking up at a new island every day. The below will help first time cruisers and even some of us more experienced cruisers. 

And don't forget to hop on over and check out her blog, if you like what you see here, you'll love it over there.. lots of great recipes and travel tips :)

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Hello all! I'm Steph from Life According to Steph, and I appreciate the opportunity to fill in for Kate while she's on vacation. Since she's on a cruise and I love cruises, I'm going to share my Cruise Essentials with you today. 

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1 - I hate clutter at home, I don't want it on vacation! Cruise rooms don't have a ton of counter space, so buy a hanging shoe organizer and bring it with you to store toiletries, batteries, chargers, etc.

2 - No one wants to deal with wet bathing suits. Most bathrooms have retractable clotheslines. You can fit more on them if you use clothespins.

3 - I know, I know, no drying clothes on the balconies. That being said, if you bring a clamp, nothing will fly away. Good for shirts or cover ups that get wet.

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4 - A fierce manicure. There will be a lot of photos.

5 - Comfortable shoes. Boats are big, so even if you're sashaying around in flip flops, make sure they're comfortable. My favorites are Sanuk Yoga Mat flip flops.

6 - A stylish yet comfortable to carry beach bag. Some excursions can mean a lot of walking. It's not fun to lug a bag that's not easy to carry.

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7 - A room with a balcony is a must for me. I'm claustrophobic and I need to be able to get outside without having to go up steps and down hallways. 

8 - Your on-board schedule. You don't want to miss out on bingo, baby. 

9 - Good reading material. A must on any vacation. 

10 - A camera to capture the gorgeousness that is the sun setting over the open sea. Your iphone isn't going to do it justice. 

Are you a cruiser? What are your cruise essentials? 

Bon voyage! 

SMD
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Chocolate Beer and Waffles in Belgium

Today, I'd like to introduce you to the fabulous Amber who recently spent time in Belgium during a break in the Peace Corp in Morocco. If you're not insanely jealous yet, start reading below! Nothing excites me more than traveling and this girl has a lot of great advice :)

Hope you enjoy her recap of Belgium and hop on over and check out her new blog!

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Today, I am super excited because I am guest-blogging for Kate today! A cruise to the Bahamas, jealousssssss! Drink one for me! I thought it would be healthy (as I am turning an Elphaba-shade of green) to remember fondly one of my recent adventures to .......Brussels, Belgium!!!!!!!

In the Peace Corps, we are allotted a certain amount of vacation days. When we heard this, we were soo excited! Especially since Morocco is so close to Europe. But little did we know that it is about 10-11 Moroccan Dirhams to 1 Euro, and being volunteers we are lucky enough to get paid in Moroccan Dirhams. So after being in Morocco for about 4 months, our bodies were craving some delicious tasting European Drinks (keep in mind that any alcohol is difficult to get and very expensive in Morocco) and a little* bit of freedom, but at a low price. We were in luck though*, we found a cozy little Ryanair flight that was right for the budget and was headed to the wonderful world of Brussels!!!!!

We decided to stay 5 nights and 4 days and everyone we talked to said that Brussels didn't have much and we should try to do a day-trip into Belgium. We decided to keep the option in our back pockets... and away* we went!!!!


So I am not gonna lie, I knew next to nothing about Brussels before we went, but that is the point of traveling right? Turns out, there is PLENTY* to do in Brussels! Here are some things I learned, or was happily reminded of...

-Brussels (and Belgium as a whole) has an AMAZING amount of chocolate and beer (aka the only things that matter)

 
plus, my FAVORITE kind of beers.... wheat and fruity!! 

-AND WAFFLES!!!! Who knew that I could consume several waffles per day and by several I mean four, only three per day



-Brussels is also home to a little guy called the Mannequin Pis and by little, I mean, one of the tiniest statues I have ever seen.


Why, yes! You are seeing a statue of a Little Boy peeing.... and yes, they DO* dress him up in different outfits! How did you know?


- Brussels is home to one of the largest collections of comic strips! There is even a walking tour you can go on to see all of them! Rin TinTin is one of the most seen!


-Brussels is the capital of the EU and the European Commission.

-Belgium is bilingual with all signs in French and Dutch.



-When Brussels hosted the World Fair, they built the Atomium (to compete with Chicago's Ferris Wheel and Paris' Eiffle Tower)


-For being such a large city... there is tons and tons of green space!!!!



-There are tons of museums, but we aren't really museum people so we went to the Chocolate and Beer museums (of course) and they were meh... but at least you get chocolate and beer!!!



-Brussels is home to many Moroccans! You should have seen their faces when we pulled out the Moroccan Arabic.... it was like someone handed them a fistful of gold!

As always- I recommend taking the Double Decker "Hop-on, Hop-off" buses! Done 'em in every city that I have been able and never regretted riding hoppin on and hoppin off the 'party bus' as I like to call it!!!

Thanks so much, Kate for having me!!! Hop on over to InDuffinitely Me to learn more about my adventures in food, fashion and the Peace Corps!!!!

The Bahamas with Emily

Happy Friday! Right about now, I'm probably sitting by the pool on the cruise ship with an umbrella drink in hand celebrating the birthday girl and getting ready to set sail to the Bahamas. I'm so sad that Emily isn't joining us, but she will be living it up in Trinidad & Tobago over the holidays leaving all of us back here super jealous. Plus, she's been to the Bahamas a few times already and has lots of tips to share to those of us 1st timers.

Emily was one of my first friends after moving to Florida, and I love that she has joined our blogging community as well.  Hope you enjoy and hop on over and check out her blog Martinis & Bikinis :)

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Happy Friday everyone! I'm Emily from over at Martinis & Bikinis

Kate's off cruising to the Bahamas so I'm guest posting for her today while she has a blast with friends & frozen cocktails in the sunny tropics!

I feel her excitement since I've been lucky enough to cruise to the Bahamas twice before so I thought I'd share my two cents on must dos/must haves and what makes it such a fun time!

Senor Frogs
As soon as you get off the ship, there's Senor Frogs waiting right there by the port for you. Who can resist? There's always a party in there, at any time of day.

Atlantis Resort
If you plan to tour Nassau, go check out the Atlantis resort. The resort is ginormous with dolphin interaction tours, a water park, and the aquarium is filled with sharks, stingrays and tons of beautiful fish.

Sands Beer
This is my absolute favorite Bahamian beer. You gotta have one while in the Bahamas.

Beaches & Beyond

A childhood friend of mine now lives in Nassau so she picked us up from the port and took us on our own little personal tour. We stopped at the Beach Club Cafe restaurant for strawberry mojitos and then walked down to the beach to lay out and take in the beautiful view. This spot is just enchanting and only a local would probably know about it.




Conch Fritters
The Bahamas has a bunch of different conch specialties that are worth trying but the conch fritters were my absolute favorite!

 Looking forward to hearing how Kate's cruise went and what she loved about the Bahamas.

It was fun ladies!

Birthday Cruise Goodies

Happy Friday Eve! I'm so flingin' flangin' excited to set sail tomorrow to celebrate the birthday girl! And Roxy is all set for her "grandparents" to stay with her. I love thinking of her as house sitting... too cute!

Birthday girl's gift is all ready for her to open:


~ Wine/drink to-go cup which will be perfect for the cruise so she can take it in the pool or in the water at the beach

~ Makeup removing cloths when she's too tired after a long day of boozing in the Bahamas to remove her makeup the good ol' fashioned way

~ Girlfriend loves lip gloss so I picked up a set for her at Target *my happy place*

~ Festive soap and big giant sponge for her big soaking tub

~ Birthday crown, wand, sash, and shot glass necklace

~ And of course a big bottle of pink champagne

Perfect for the pool and the beach isn't it?


Cannot wait to be laying out looking at this beautiful water

Hope everyone has an amazing weekend! I have some fabulous ladies lined up for your reading delight, so don't miss me too much :-P


Current Loves

Happy hump day! Friday cannot get here fast enough.....but I have so much to love love love right now :)

~ I'm loving that I've renewed my VIB status at Sephora with my recent order



~ I'm loving the new stationary at Kate Spade



~ I'm loving these snowflake tumblers from Target


~ I'm loving that I'll be in the Bahamas downing yard drinks in a few days






~ I'm loving my new sparkly yoga pants from VS


and my new tops from the ON sale





Metallic Top which would be great for the holidays


~ I'm loving my recent pins on Pinterest:













~ I'm always loving my wonderful H





What are YOU loving today?